i am not the damsel in distress

bibliophile // lover of all things Whedonverse
resident of Shondaland // proud Gryffindor
member of the Lost Orphan is the New Black fandom
femslash shipper // occasional Gleek

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allonsyforever:

mugglebornheadcanon:

501. Muggleborns accidentally calling Dumbledore “Gandalf”.

"accidentally"

(via weirdnessloveandscifi)


19942004:

I almost cried watching this

19942004:

I almost cried watching this

(via apartment20)


Jaime Murray in Fright Night 2

(Source: foxyfoxy, via ofendlesswonder)



theawkwardterrier:

The guy in front of me when I was getting ice cream tonight was wearing this.

theawkwardterrier:

The guy in front of me when I was getting ice cream tonight was wearing this.

(via thequeenofsleepy)


sweetcatastrophex:

THIS IS IMPORTANT

(Source: goldenstories, via postcardpromise)



“Writing and reading fanfiction isn’t just something you do; it’s a way of thinking critically about the media you consume, of being aware of all the implicit assumptions that a canonical work carries with it, and of considering the possibility that those assumptions might not be the only way things have to be.”

—   

At this late date, fanfiction has become wildly more biodiverse that the canonical works that it springs from. It encompasses male pregnancy, centaurification, body swapping, apocalypses, reincarnation, and every sexual fetish, kink, combination, position, and inversion you can imagine and probably a lot more that you could but would probably prefer not to. It breaks down walls between genders and genres and races and canons and bodies and species and past and future and conscious and unconscious and fiction and reality. Culturally speaking, this work used to be the job of the avant garde, but in many ways fanfiction has stepped in to take that role. If the mainstream has been slow to honor it, well, that’s usually the fate of aesthetic revolutions. Fanfiction is the madwoman in mainstream culture’s attic, but the attic won’t contain it forever.

Anne Jamison. Fic: Why Fanfiction is Taking Over the World. 2013

(via agentotter)

(Source: deleted-scenes, via webgeekist)


15 Reasons Why Monica Geller Is An Unappreciated Character

theyarerealtome:

1: Fed all of her friends almost every day for ten years without complaining.

2: Excelled in a traditionally masculine career, (yes, cookery as a profession is generally male-dominated) and in traditionally masculine hobbies (football), without compromising her femininity or sexuality.

3: At the same time, revelled in traditionally female interests such as babies, marriage and housework without apologizing for them, or suggesting they made her inferior or weak.

4: Overcame teenage obesity.

5: Grew up in an emotionally abusive home, with a mother who subjected her to relentless criticism and verbal mistreatment….But still emerged with a sense of her own self-worth, determination to fulfil her dreams and huge capacity to care for others.

6: Stayed friends with her brother who bullied her as a child, and contributed to said-emotionally abusive home. Didn’t blame him for her mistreatment or show resentment towards him.

7: Took former best friend – who abandoned and rejected her for a ‘high society’ life – into her home without question.

8: Prior to this, accepted a woman who had previously lived on the streets, as her roommate and welcomed her into her group of friends.

9: Went through unemployment and shitty jobs, but refused to take unfair advantages she hadn’t earned (i.e. Pete buying her a restaurant). Eventually gained a prestigious head chef position based entirely on her own merit.

10: Walked away from the man she thought was the love of her life, because she wanted children and he’d only have them to make her happy. Even though that option would have been 100 times less painful for Monica, she knew that wasn’t fair on him and refused.

11: After marrying the actual love of her life, she waited until Chandler was ready to have kids, because she knew about his fears of raising children. When they discovered virtually the only option for children was sperm donor-ship (so they’d be her kids but not his), she refused and insisted on adoption. 

12: Was also the one-woman cheerleading team for the aforementioned love of her life, in telling him he could be the amazing boyfriend, husband and father that he never saw in himself. Was proved 100% right.

13: Resisted her control-freak coping mechanisms to give Chandler the power of making the big decisions about their future, (saying ‘I Love you’, moving in together, marriage), so he could work through his commitment phobia. Again, proved it was 100% worth it.

14: Encouraged her husband to quit a job he hated, then supported him – financially and emotionally –through his subsequent unemployment and helped him find his dream career.

15: Never, ever fucking gives up on anything or anyone. 

(via mynightmaresareaboutlosingyou)



wollipyos:

If you’re straight you’re straight, you can’t get more straight. If you’re gay though you can get gayer every day if you work at it. That’s the fun part about being gay. You’re constantly moving past your limits.

(via tantedrago)


When my Psychology of Women prof asks me why I’m taking her class

When my Psychology of Women prof asks me why I’m taking her class

(Source: lezkingdom, via lezitup)


saunterdown:

#this is some like dark mage sorcerer goddess fashion going on here im diggin it so hard 

Mum:

I think I want to watch that series you were watching a few weeks ago

Me:

Which one?

Mum:

It was something like 'orphan is the new black'

Me:

That's two separate shows

Mum:

No

there was a one with dark hair in glasses that you thought was hot

and i'm pretty sure she was a lesbian

because she was going out with that blonde lady

Me:

That still could be either show

Mum:

I think there were clones

Me:

There we go.


musingsofaraven:

gaydragonlady:

Jaime Murray and her HAIRPORN! *____*
She’s the queen of hairporn!
NEVER STOP, JAIME!

imagine how difficult it must be for her to leave Stahma’s wig alone. or how many out takes there are of her messing it up because she unconsciously tried to run her hands through it.

(Source: lethalbite, via amy-tabby)